Talk your children dating after divorce
Your child might think the change is happening because he didn't clean his room or do well in school.He might also assume some responsibility for trying to fix the problem.
"You may feel so upset that you want to tell the child about your spouse's egregious behavior," says Klungness.
Some kids will be openly sad or angry, while others may deny they have any feelings at all about it.
Yet school-age kids can be surprisingly resilient and able to adapt.
How you talk to them about divorce — before, during, and after it happens — will make a big difference in how they cope over the long run.
What they need most from you right now is reassurance and consistency in the routines they rely on. If you and your spouse are considering a separation or divorce, keep it to yourselves until you know for sure.