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An Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at UCLA, she passionately believes that the future of medicine involves integrating all this wisdom to achieve emotional freedom and total wellness. The feelings you describe about "love" sound to me more like "in love"..there a difference?
For example, one guy I considered dating at one point has those feelings for every girl he dates.
If you don't know and/or remember the feelings of lust and love, and TRYING to recognize the difference, my guess is that you've not been in the position to have to decide, for a very long time. I truly wonder if lust is our go to emotion because we are conditioned to express our deepest emotional selves in a sexual manner?
So that if you really like someone, you will instinctively develop sexual Attraction.
This isn't easy in the midst of hormones surging, but it's essential to make healthy relationship decisions.
MRI scans illustrate that the same area lights up when an addict gets a fix of cocaine as when a person is experiencing the intense lust of physical attraction.
Also in the early stage of a relationship, when the sex hormones are raging, lust is fueled by idealization and projection--you see what you hope someone will be or need them to be--rather than seeing the real person, flaws and all.
On a first date, one woman landed in the hospital with an IV, retching from "psychosomatic" abdominal pain. It's so much nicer to be involved with someone your gut likes.
Then you're not always guarding against a basic suspicion or incompatibility.