How long after a break up to start dating
You need to grieve the loss of the relationship – if you don’t you’ll find it even harder to move on.
This process might seem embarrassing but ultimately showing your emotions will help you grow emotionally.
However, what it’s also done is given us some great tools for ‘spying’ on certain people.
Promise yourself two things: that you won’t post anything (however cryptic) about the break-up online, and that you won’t check your exes status/page/twitter feed/Pinterest board obsessively.
If it’s because you feel guilty, then all you’re doing is leading them on.
And if it’s because you think you have a chance of getting back together then you’re just setting yourself up for more hurt.
My ex and I were together 13 years and we just broke up last month.
Social media has opened up our world and helped us keep in touch with friends, family and people we didn’t even know we wanted to know.So, maybe wait a while before getting ‘Life’s a Bitch’ inked on your thigh.We know; you’ve spent months or even years knowing almost every detail of your partner’s life and now, nothing. But whatever you do, try to resist the temptation to keep a foothold in their life by checking up on them.Your ex’s reaction will most likely be one of revulsion and then you’ll be in an even deeper despair than before.It might not feel like it right now, but being alone is far better than being in a bad relationship.